For the past several months, in addition to my regimen of playing league (when in season) and pick up basketball, I have been working out at the gym pretty frequently. In the past, I used to just do cardio exercise with some light weight work. Since my office gym isn't all too crowded, I've spent more time on weight work, primarily focusing on arms, chest and shoulders. However, I decided to do some leg muscle work as well.
The leg work seemed to have a bit of an unexpected effect on my basketball playing. I seemed to get a little more bounce in my step playing DEFENSE. I've never been the quickest guy in the world but in the past couple of months, I've noticed I'm able to stay in front of younger / quicker guys a little bit better. My friends will laugh at this as I'm better known for my jump shooting than defense but I have been moving my feet a little better.
Alas, there is a flip side to this. After playing several hours of pick up ball on Saturday (guarding a couple of quick guys), my knees were quite sore. I think younger guys have more energy and recover faster. If I was asked to play ball the next day, it would have been difficult. Plus, if you focus on defense, your offense suffers a bit. It is extremely hard to be a two way player.
Regardless, it's pretty fun to try to guard quick players at my age. Who says old people can't play?
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
The Life of An NBA Player is not easy (just ask Jeremy Lin)
I haven't been blogging too much recently but watching Jeremy Lin bouncing from team to team in recent weeks gave me a topic to discuss.
There are probably many young basketball players / athletes / kids out there who look up to the various NBA players and dream they could be out there. However, I would be willing to bet that most of the players young athletes idolize are the stars: Kobe Bryant, LeBron James, Dwayne Wade, Kevin Durant, etc, etc.
There's nothing wrong with idolizing stars but their lifestyle and basketball careers are remarkably different than fringe / borderline NBA players like Jeremy Lin. Stars don't have to worry about where they will play for or if they will make money. Teams will pony up a ton of cash and sign a star at a moment's notice.
What most young athletes don't see is that mid to lower level NBA players have to work really hard and even then there is not a guarantee they will play in the league. It's perfectly fine for young athletes to dream about playing in the NBA but the reality is STAYING in the NBA takes a lot of work for players who are not stars. Plus there is a ton of uncertainty to deal with. But if a young athlete has some ability and the dedication to improve, they might be able to make it.
How does this relate to Jeremy Lin? Well, Jeremy is a player on the fringe at this point of his career. He is now with the Knicks after being cut by the Warriors and the Rockets. He hasn't gotten a ton of opportunity to show what he can do and it remains to be seen what will happen with the Knicks.
No matter what happens to Jeremy in the future, I hope Asian parents will take note of Jeremy's example and not other Asian NBA players like Yao Ming. While there is nothing wrong with Yao as an example, Yao is/was a star much like the Kobe Bryant and LeBron James. Jeremy's career path is much more realistic (if not as interesting) path that the MAJORITY of NBA players have to go through.
Unfortunately, Jeremy's current career path may actually cause parents to discourage Asian parents from letting their kids from playing sports. They might say "Look at Jeremy, he's jumping from team to team and doesn't know where he might be a few weeks from now".
All of this is true but nothing in life is ever set in stone. Just having a good education these days is no guarantee that you will get a job. These days, experience and connections matter more than just pure education. The flip side is that Jeremy loves basketball and wants to prove he can play in the NBA. He is more than willing to put the work in.
I'm a believer in pursuing whatever you're passionate about. That's why I support independent Asian-American movies, musicians and artists. They might not be big names but there is stuff I like. I support Jeremy Lin not just because he is Asian but because he is basically a "regular guy" that people can relate to. I hope that Asians (and others) take note of Jeremy's example.
There are probably many young basketball players / athletes / kids out there who look up to the various NBA players and dream they could be out there. However, I would be willing to bet that most of the players young athletes idolize are the stars: Kobe Bryant, LeBron James, Dwayne Wade, Kevin Durant, etc, etc.
There's nothing wrong with idolizing stars but their lifestyle and basketball careers are remarkably different than fringe / borderline NBA players like Jeremy Lin. Stars don't have to worry about where they will play for or if they will make money. Teams will pony up a ton of cash and sign a star at a moment's notice.
What most young athletes don't see is that mid to lower level NBA players have to work really hard and even then there is not a guarantee they will play in the league. It's perfectly fine for young athletes to dream about playing in the NBA but the reality is STAYING in the NBA takes a lot of work for players who are not stars. Plus there is a ton of uncertainty to deal with. But if a young athlete has some ability and the dedication to improve, they might be able to make it.
How does this relate to Jeremy Lin? Well, Jeremy is a player on the fringe at this point of his career. He is now with the Knicks after being cut by the Warriors and the Rockets. He hasn't gotten a ton of opportunity to show what he can do and it remains to be seen what will happen with the Knicks.
No matter what happens to Jeremy in the future, I hope Asian parents will take note of Jeremy's example and not other Asian NBA players like Yao Ming. While there is nothing wrong with Yao as an example, Yao is/was a star much like the Kobe Bryant and LeBron James. Jeremy's career path is much more realistic (if not as interesting) path that the MAJORITY of NBA players have to go through.
Unfortunately, Jeremy's current career path may actually cause parents to discourage Asian parents from letting their kids from playing sports. They might say "Look at Jeremy, he's jumping from team to team and doesn't know where he might be a few weeks from now".
All of this is true but nothing in life is ever set in stone. Just having a good education these days is no guarantee that you will get a job. These days, experience and connections matter more than just pure education. The flip side is that Jeremy loves basketball and wants to prove he can play in the NBA. He is more than willing to put the work in.
I'm a believer in pursuing whatever you're passionate about. That's why I support independent Asian-American movies, musicians and artists. They might not be big names but there is stuff I like. I support Jeremy Lin not just because he is Asian but because he is basically a "regular guy" that people can relate to. I hope that Asians (and others) take note of Jeremy's example.
Sunday, December 18, 2011
My Holiday Tradition: DONATE!
Some years ago, the company I was working for at the time had a Christmas / Holiday toy donation program. Employees would donate toys and the company would give them to local charities or programs like Toys For Tots. I really took to this program because less fortunate families and/or kids struggle just to have a home, food or other basic necessities. Families can't just afford to purchase toys or other fun things for their kids.
That year, I made an effort to purchase some toys for donation. As I was shopping, another idea came to mind. Rather than purchase ONE toy, I purchased two toys. One toy for a boy and one toy for a girl. I figured it would be fair to purchase one of both genders.
I continued this tradition until I left the company a few years later. My last couple of companies don't have any official toy donation programs. So for a couple of years, I purchased toys and donated them at malls or other locations that need donations. Last year, I just made a monetary donation to the local Toys For Tots programs. This year, as I was at a mall, I saw a Toys For Tots donation both, I went back to purchasing two toys again.
It's a small way to contribute back to the community during a time where there are many families that are struggling. When kids are happy, I believe that will help the family feel better overall even if their circumstances haven't completely changed.
For those who want to make a difference this and any other holiday season, consider making a donation to a charity that you support.
That year, I made an effort to purchase some toys for donation. As I was shopping, another idea came to mind. Rather than purchase ONE toy, I purchased two toys. One toy for a boy and one toy for a girl. I figured it would be fair to purchase one of both genders.
I continued this tradition until I left the company a few years later. My last couple of companies don't have any official toy donation programs. So for a couple of years, I purchased toys and donated them at malls or other locations that need donations. Last year, I just made a monetary donation to the local Toys For Tots programs. This year, as I was at a mall, I saw a Toys For Tots donation both, I went back to purchasing two toys again.
It's a small way to contribute back to the community during a time where there are many families that are struggling. When kids are happy, I believe that will help the family feel better overall even if their circumstances haven't completely changed.
For those who want to make a difference this and any other holiday season, consider making a donation to a charity that you support.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Things To Be Thankful For - 2011 Turkey Day Edition
Some years ago, I wrote a list of things I was thankful for and emailed them to my friends. Since we have the power of Facebook and blogs, I am going to note a list of things to be thankful for in 2011!
In no particular order:
In no particular order:
- Family: Mom/Dad primarily, but to all my cousins that are out there. I don't see them a ton but thankful when I do see them.
- Friends: Too many to name, but thanks to everyone I come into contact with. You all have been a blessing to me, especially in times of need.
- Job: Yes, I've been laid off twice from my current position and still chose to come back once again. But I am not complaining. I am thankful to have a job during a tough time in the economy.
- Basketball: Many reasons I put this down. One, I love being involved in the sport. Two, it's good exercise. Three, it brings together friends whether it's the Saturday guys I play with or the leagues I play with.
To conclude, it's easy for a lot of people to look at what we don't have (me included!). However, try to remember that we are blessed with many things if we stop to take a look. It may be as simple as the air we breathe or the fact that we have a roof over our heads. Happy Thanksgiving!
Wednesday, November 09, 2011
Coach vs Player-Coach
Being a basketball (or any sport) coach is a challenging task, even for the professionals. In my years of involvement of basketball, I've been lucky to have been a player, coach and referee. If being just a coach itself is tough, imagine being a player-coach.
I coached kids basketball for 14 years and the challenges were running practices, skill development, motivation and preparing the kids for the games. Coaching during the game was not always easy but probably the best part of being just a coach. However, my best skill as a coach was identifying a kid's best talent and putting it to the best use for the team. After all, five Michael Jordan's or Lebron James' do not make a team. You need the Rodman's and Paxson's too.
As I went away from coaching kids and playing myself more, I eventually started being a captain / coach to some of my adult league teams. With the adult leagues I play in, there isn't practices. I might have say in the players if the league was a draft league but this wasn't always the case. Season by season, the challenge was you had a changing set of players with varying skill sets.
As time went on though, I realized the hardest past WASN'T figuring out the players on my teams. That was actually the easy part. The hard part was figuring out how much I SHOULD PLAY, especially if you're not having a great night. You see, some of the other team captains are talented and highly skilled. For myself, I am the jack of all trades and fit into a team in many different ways. If I'm on my game, I'll play more for sure. If my game is off, I might play myself more to see if I can work through things. Otherwise, the hard choice is to sit yourself.
Coaching at any level is tough and it's even harder when you have to "coach yourself". But I wouldn't keep doing it if it weren't enjoyable at some level. :)
I coached kids basketball for 14 years and the challenges were running practices, skill development, motivation and preparing the kids for the games. Coaching during the game was not always easy but probably the best part of being just a coach. However, my best skill as a coach was identifying a kid's best talent and putting it to the best use for the team. After all, five Michael Jordan's or Lebron James' do not make a team. You need the Rodman's and Paxson's too.
As I went away from coaching kids and playing myself more, I eventually started being a captain / coach to some of my adult league teams. With the adult leagues I play in, there isn't practices. I might have say in the players if the league was a draft league but this wasn't always the case. Season by season, the challenge was you had a changing set of players with varying skill sets.
As time went on though, I realized the hardest past WASN'T figuring out the players on my teams. That was actually the easy part. The hard part was figuring out how much I SHOULD PLAY, especially if you're not having a great night. You see, some of the other team captains are talented and highly skilled. For myself, I am the jack of all trades and fit into a team in many different ways. If I'm on my game, I'll play more for sure. If my game is off, I might play myself more to see if I can work through things. Otherwise, the hard choice is to sit yourself.
Coaching at any level is tough and it's even harder when you have to "coach yourself". But I wouldn't keep doing it if it weren't enjoyable at some level. :)
Monday, October 31, 2011
The Changing Nature of Halloween
Where I live, I've noticed a trend the past two to three years. When I was younger, every Halloween, there would be a stream of kids coming by with their parents to get candy. But I started noticing fewer and fewer kids stopping a few years ago and then the past two to three years, there has been ZERO kids stopping by.
I had heard that parents had decided to take their kids to the local malls where the stores were passing out candy. Being at the mall tonight, I saw it was true. There were a ton of families and kids there including someone I knew. I guess I can understand why parents have been doing this. Safety at night is an issue though I can't say that my neighborhood is all that bad.
The funny thing is that I talked to a co-worker in Virginia today and he was still taking his kids out to the neighborhood. I'm not sure why parents in my area are not taking their kids out to the neighborhood but it is an interesting trend I don't think will change anytime soon.
I had heard that parents had decided to take their kids to the local malls where the stores were passing out candy. Being at the mall tonight, I saw it was true. There were a ton of families and kids there including someone I knew. I guess I can understand why parents have been doing this. Safety at night is an issue though I can't say that my neighborhood is all that bad.
The funny thing is that I talked to a co-worker in Virginia today and he was still taking his kids out to the neighborhood. I'm not sure why parents in my area are not taking their kids out to the neighborhood but it is an interesting trend I don't think will change anytime soon.
Friday, October 28, 2011
Writing For Dollars
A couple of weeks ago, I made a tough decision to take a leave of absence from high school basketball officiating. The reasons for this are plenty but nothing I really want to discuss at this point in time. However, the decision was not made without having some plans in mind.
Some weeks ago, I felt I had an inkling to start writing more again. I do various blogs throughout the year. I write a monthly column on Apple II and other retro video games. A couple of years ago, I had embarked on freelance writing covering high school sports.
The reason for freelance writing was that high school sports coverage is pretty sparse in the area I live in. Since I was unemployed at the time, it was a good idea to try and I did it for the better part of a year. The issues I ran into was that I was a freelance operation and I had to do everything myself. When I returned to work a few months later, I continued to write as much as I could but it proved difficult to juggle freelancing with my job. Eventually, I stopped my freelance writing.
However, another enterprising person saw the same gaps in high school sports coverage I did and started up his own website and got a staff of writers to work with him. In fact, I was asked at one point to contribute to this site. I declined as I was busy with work, officiating and other stuff.
Alas, as I had an inkling to write again, I asked the website if I could potentially contribute to their site as a writer. The owner/editor noted that he would love it if I could help out. At this point, there is nothing formalized but I do plan to contribute as much as I am available to watch games.
It was time for a change and I am fortunate to be given an opportunity to try and do something different.
Some weeks ago, I felt I had an inkling to start writing more again. I do various blogs throughout the year. I write a monthly column on Apple II and other retro video games. A couple of years ago, I had embarked on freelance writing covering high school sports.
The reason for freelance writing was that high school sports coverage is pretty sparse in the area I live in. Since I was unemployed at the time, it was a good idea to try and I did it for the better part of a year. The issues I ran into was that I was a freelance operation and I had to do everything myself. When I returned to work a few months later, I continued to write as much as I could but it proved difficult to juggle freelancing with my job. Eventually, I stopped my freelance writing.
However, another enterprising person saw the same gaps in high school sports coverage I did and started up his own website and got a staff of writers to work with him. In fact, I was asked at one point to contribute to this site. I declined as I was busy with work, officiating and other stuff.
Alas, as I had an inkling to write again, I asked the website if I could potentially contribute to their site as a writer. The owner/editor noted that he would love it if I could help out. At this point, there is nothing formalized but I do plan to contribute as much as I am available to watch games.
It was time for a change and I am fortunate to be given an opportunity to try and do something different.
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Being in shape is not quite the same as basketball shape...plus misc topics
Typically, a group of guys I know play pick up basketball on Saturday afternoons. For as long as I have known and played with these guys, we have hardly played full court basketball. I'd say 99.99% of time we have played half court games with the rare exception of playing full court. Most of the guys are in the mid 30's and some are older than that, so running full court isn't always optimal.
In the past few years, we have hardly missed many weeks. Of the 52 weeks in a year, I'd say we play 80 to 85% of the time. Obviously some guys come and go due to various thing but we usually get enough to play regardless.
Alas, the past three weeks, we have not played. There were several reasons for that. One, several guys were out of town. Two, the gym we normally play at was closed for gym floor maintenance. Since we have grown to love playing indoors, the remaining guys decided to just skip playing.
As someone who typically plays a lot of basketball, I realized how much I have missed playing the past few Saturdays. First, since I didn't really play Saturdays for a few weeks, I lost a little bit of stamina and feel on my jump shot. That affected me in the first three games on my Thursday night basketball league. I was getting up and down but not as well as I normally do. Plus, my usually reliable shot was just not going in. When my shot is going, it's pretty automatic. But the past three Thursdays, I felt I was pushing my shot.
Today, the Saturday basketball crew finally got back together and played. Just about everyone was a little out of sync early because your body hasn't really moved that much in a while. I struggled with my shot quite a bit today. Because I played in league, I was in ok shape so I could rebound and hustle a little but my shot was way off.
Playing basketball today made me realize how everything works together. Lots of young kids just like to run and play full court basketball. Those pick up games end up being run and gun affairs with minimal defense played. Our guys play hard and we have to keep moving. I think playing with the Saturday crew actually has helped me get my shot more consistent during my league games. I personally don't mind playing full court pick up sometimes but it gets harder as you get older and have to run against young kids.
Lastly, even I haven't played a ton of basketball lately, I did work out at the gym a bit. There is a major difference being in decent (and healthy) shape versus being in basketball shape.
In the past few years, we have hardly missed many weeks. Of the 52 weeks in a year, I'd say we play 80 to 85% of the time. Obviously some guys come and go due to various thing but we usually get enough to play regardless.
Alas, the past three weeks, we have not played. There were several reasons for that. One, several guys were out of town. Two, the gym we normally play at was closed for gym floor maintenance. Since we have grown to love playing indoors, the remaining guys decided to just skip playing.
As someone who typically plays a lot of basketball, I realized how much I have missed playing the past few Saturdays. First, since I didn't really play Saturdays for a few weeks, I lost a little bit of stamina and feel on my jump shot. That affected me in the first three games on my Thursday night basketball league. I was getting up and down but not as well as I normally do. Plus, my usually reliable shot was just not going in. When my shot is going, it's pretty automatic. But the past three Thursdays, I felt I was pushing my shot.
Today, the Saturday basketball crew finally got back together and played. Just about everyone was a little out of sync early because your body hasn't really moved that much in a while. I struggled with my shot quite a bit today. Because I played in league, I was in ok shape so I could rebound and hustle a little but my shot was way off.
Playing basketball today made me realize how everything works together. Lots of young kids just like to run and play full court basketball. Those pick up games end up being run and gun affairs with minimal defense played. Our guys play hard and we have to keep moving. I think playing with the Saturday crew actually has helped me get my shot more consistent during my league games. I personally don't mind playing full court pick up sometimes but it gets harder as you get older and have to run against young kids.
Lastly, even I haven't played a ton of basketball lately, I did work out at the gym a bit. There is a major difference being in decent (and healthy) shape versus being in basketball shape.
Monday, October 10, 2011
Sports As A Social Exercise
The past couple of weeks have been interesting for me. Two of my best friends went away on vacation at the same with their respective families. At the same time, I had been expecting to play basketball about three times a week (Monday & Thursday leagues + Saturday get together). However, the Monday and Thursday leagues were merged due to lack of players on both days. My usual Saturday basketball group also did not play in the last couple of weeks with some people away and the gym being closed for remodeling.
All of this forced me to become more adaptable. I hung out with some of my other guy friends (who are usually busy with kids but we had a get together a couple of weeks ago). I reached out to some others I hadn't seen or talked to in a while. Some folks I hadn't talked to in a while actually called me too.
But the toughest challenge proved to be finding an activity to substitute for playing basketball. A few of my friends always say I should play "less basketball" as it's an activity that consumes my time at the expense of other things. Alas, I disagree with the assessment. Basketball is an activity I enjoy and it's exercise. Exercise is always good for the body.
However, as I learned in these past two weeks, if basketball were JUST exercise, I could easily replace it. I could play basketball elsewhere, play another sport or just work out in the gym. In fact, I did do some cardio work AND played basketball at my local gym. While the exercise was nice, I really realized why I was missing some my basketball that I was expecting.
I realized that part of my enjoyment from playing basketball (or other sports) is the socializing. My current Thursday night basketball is competitive but I know a lot of the guys too. While we all try to win, it is also a chance to catch up and talk to folks. The Saturday basketball crew is also like that as well. I was introduced to my Saturday crew from one of my friends I mentioned above. It's been only in the past 2 or 3 years that I have been showing up consistently. It's always good to play but talk to the guys. While I don't share a long history with them, I've become a part of their circle. We have birthday gatherings and other things we do together.
Simply just doing cardio or playing pick up ball with random strangers is good and I've done that plenty of times in the past. However, I don't usually work out with others. Playing ball with random strangers is cool if you want to just play ball. While my basketball playing style is adaptable, sometimes it's just good to play with people you know.
All in all, As I get older, I am realizing the social aspect of sports is become just as important as playing the sport itself. In fact, I see this applying to other activities such as officiating. I was officiating a tournament this weekend. My partner today wanted to have breakfast so we met up early, had breakfast, talked and watched some football before working our games. I plan to socialize more with my fellow officials as my high school season rolls around in the next few months.
All of this forced me to become more adaptable. I hung out with some of my other guy friends (who are usually busy with kids but we had a get together a couple of weeks ago). I reached out to some others I hadn't seen or talked to in a while. Some folks I hadn't talked to in a while actually called me too.
But the toughest challenge proved to be finding an activity to substitute for playing basketball. A few of my friends always say I should play "less basketball" as it's an activity that consumes my time at the expense of other things. Alas, I disagree with the assessment. Basketball is an activity I enjoy and it's exercise. Exercise is always good for the body.
However, as I learned in these past two weeks, if basketball were JUST exercise, I could easily replace it. I could play basketball elsewhere, play another sport or just work out in the gym. In fact, I did do some cardio work AND played basketball at my local gym. While the exercise was nice, I really realized why I was missing some my basketball that I was expecting.
I realized that part of my enjoyment from playing basketball (or other sports) is the socializing. My current Thursday night basketball is competitive but I know a lot of the guys too. While we all try to win, it is also a chance to catch up and talk to folks. The Saturday basketball crew is also like that as well. I was introduced to my Saturday crew from one of my friends I mentioned above. It's been only in the past 2 or 3 years that I have been showing up consistently. It's always good to play but talk to the guys. While I don't share a long history with them, I've become a part of their circle. We have birthday gatherings and other things we do together.
Simply just doing cardio or playing pick up ball with random strangers is good and I've done that plenty of times in the past. However, I don't usually work out with others. Playing ball with random strangers is cool if you want to just play ball. While my basketball playing style is adaptable, sometimes it's just good to play with people you know.
All in all, As I get older, I am realizing the social aspect of sports is become just as important as playing the sport itself. In fact, I see this applying to other activities such as officiating. I was officiating a tournament this weekend. My partner today wanted to have breakfast so we met up early, had breakfast, talked and watched some football before working our games. I plan to socialize more with my fellow officials as my high school season rolls around in the next few months.
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
The Gift Of friends
In my younger days during middle school and high school, I was a pretty shy and quiet (believe it or not) person. I would interact with people but never really had a friend or group of friends that I consistently hung out with.
That changed in my senior year of high school as I got to know a person that would become my "best friend" for many years into college and beyond. Through this "best friend", I met others that also became long term friends as well.
These people became my default group I hung out with for many years. I personally liked having a stable group of people to hang out with. Through this group of friends, I met a few other people including one person I still talk to regularly.
As I have gone through college and into the workforce, I have opened up to the point where my friends are surprised when I DON'T talk. Alas, as I have matured, I have realized that I am somewhat of an open book. I don't like holding things in and have to get my feelings out.
That is why I am thankful for my friends who have listened to me talk about various things over the years. Obviously, these friendships are not one sided. One thing people really don't know about me is that I listen well and I think my friends appreciate this.
However, I am fortunate to have other friends beyond the ones I talk to. I may not talk to some of these people as much as my older friends but we have common interests. I definitely enjoy the times I spend with all of my friends whether it is talking, playing basketball or doing some other activity.
That changed in my senior year of high school as I got to know a person that would become my "best friend" for many years into college and beyond. Through this "best friend", I met others that also became long term friends as well.
These people became my default group I hung out with for many years. I personally liked having a stable group of people to hang out with. Through this group of friends, I met a few other people including one person I still talk to regularly.
As I have gone through college and into the workforce, I have opened up to the point where my friends are surprised when I DON'T talk. Alas, as I have matured, I have realized that I am somewhat of an open book. I don't like holding things in and have to get my feelings out.
That is why I am thankful for my friends who have listened to me talk about various things over the years. Obviously, these friendships are not one sided. One thing people really don't know about me is that I listen well and I think my friends appreciate this.
However, I am fortunate to have other friends beyond the ones I talk to. I may not talk to some of these people as much as my older friends but we have common interests. I definitely enjoy the times I spend with all of my friends whether it is talking, playing basketball or doing some other activity.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Day Off in San Francisco
Since I returned to work back in late May, I have only taken one day off + one sick day. Thus, I topped out on the number of vacation days I could accumulate. As I had a Groupon for a photography class, I decided to take today off and redeem my Groupon and do the class at Fisherman's Wharf / Pier 39.
It was a great choice all the way around. First, the weather was absolutely lovely I'm San Francisco. Unlike the usual fog, we had plenty of sun. Second, I was the only person who signed up for the class today. So, I got a chance to work with my instructor Kelly one-on-one. She was a nice gal with plenty of knowledge to pass on.
I learned quite a bit about the art of manual photography. Kelly's philosophy was to get students away from shooting in automatic modes. I had tried reading about manual photography but nothing beats practice and having someone talk you through things. I took quite a few shots today for practice. Some turned out well and some didn't but that's ok. It takes a little time to grasp everything.
To cap the day, I went and got a massage and hung out at the bookstore for a little while. All in all, a lovely way to spend a day away from work.
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It was a great choice all the way around. First, the weather was absolutely lovely I'm San Francisco. Unlike the usual fog, we had plenty of sun. Second, I was the only person who signed up for the class today. So, I got a chance to work with my instructor Kelly one-on-one. She was a nice gal with plenty of knowledge to pass on.
I learned quite a bit about the art of manual photography. Kelly's philosophy was to get students away from shooting in automatic modes. I had tried reading about manual photography but nothing beats practice and having someone talk you through things. I took quite a few shots today for practice. Some turned out well and some didn't but that's ok. It takes a little time to grasp everything.
To cap the day, I went and got a massage and hung out at the bookstore for a little while. All in all, a lovely way to spend a day away from work.
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Tuesday, August 30, 2011
A Championship To Remember and Cherish
Monday night, my team (Black - #1 seed) took on the Green team (#3 seed) in the championship game of our Summer Basketball League. My team was undefeated though hadn't played well the past few weeks and barely beat Grey (#4 seed) 59-52 last week to make the championship game. On the other hand, Green was a mix of young and old guys and they had upset the Gold team (#2 seed) to make the championship.
There was no consolation game prior so I did not expect too many fans and potentially a low key championship game. However, the Green team's young guys brought a bevy of friends and family along. In addition, several of Green's players who had missed a few weeks due to other things, decided to return. Instead of focusing on just a couple of guys on the Green team, my team had to contend with two others (a older big guy and a younger guard). I don't know how my teammates were feeling prior to the game. I was pretty relaxed and actually liked having the crowd there. That usually makes me focus and play better.
Safe to say the championship game was NOT low key and both teams played at a very high level. Both teams had opportunities to win but at the end my team played off a thrilling 73-72 OVERTIME win over the Green team. The win finished off an undefeated (10-0) season. For me personally, I tallied a game high 24 points (12-17 FT's) to lead my team. My teammate Paul added 19 while another teammate Duane scored 15.
I could write a dozen pages on all the happenings during the game but I won't do that. I'll just say that our team had plenty of miscues late in the game, all of which could have lost the game for us. Yet we hung together, stayed mentally tough and withstood Green's challenge to win.
I do give credit to Green though. They were incredibly tough and both teams deserved to win. It was a shame that someone had to lose. There was some obvious disappointment from some of the young kids but they will have plenty of years ahead of them still.
For me, I absolutely loved our team. It's a rare thing to get a team of guys that all get along but we did. Even though we finished undefeated, we had our ups and downs but the chemistry helped us stick together.
Including Monday's game, this was my 12th championship game that I have played in. Monday's game ranks as the best and most memorable. I will remember this game due to the drama, the overtime and all the miscues we had to overcome. Plus, my 24 points was the most I've ever scored in a championship game. All of my teammates agreed that Monday's game will be something they will remember for years to come.
Wrapping up, I am thankful for being given the Most Inspirational Player award for my team. Winning the championship was a GREAT bonus. Thanks to the league coordinators, my teammates and the other teams were a terrific summer. I hope to see a lot of the folks again soon.
There was no consolation game prior so I did not expect too many fans and potentially a low key championship game. However, the Green team's young guys brought a bevy of friends and family along. In addition, several of Green's players who had missed a few weeks due to other things, decided to return. Instead of focusing on just a couple of guys on the Green team, my team had to contend with two others (a older big guy and a younger guard). I don't know how my teammates were feeling prior to the game. I was pretty relaxed and actually liked having the crowd there. That usually makes me focus and play better.
Safe to say the championship game was NOT low key and both teams played at a very high level. Both teams had opportunities to win but at the end my team played off a thrilling 73-72 OVERTIME win over the Green team. The win finished off an undefeated (10-0) season. For me personally, I tallied a game high 24 points (12-17 FT's) to lead my team. My teammate Paul added 19 while another teammate Duane scored 15.
I could write a dozen pages on all the happenings during the game but I won't do that. I'll just say that our team had plenty of miscues late in the game, all of which could have lost the game for us. Yet we hung together, stayed mentally tough and withstood Green's challenge to win.
I do give credit to Green though. They were incredibly tough and both teams deserved to win. It was a shame that someone had to lose. There was some obvious disappointment from some of the young kids but they will have plenty of years ahead of them still.
For me, I absolutely loved our team. It's a rare thing to get a team of guys that all get along but we did. Even though we finished undefeated, we had our ups and downs but the chemistry helped us stick together.
Including Monday's game, this was my 12th championship game that I have played in. Monday's game ranks as the best and most memorable. I will remember this game due to the drama, the overtime and all the miscues we had to overcome. Plus, my 24 points was the most I've ever scored in a championship game. All of my teammates agreed that Monday's game will be something they will remember for years to come.
Wrapping up, I am thankful for being given the Most Inspirational Player award for my team. Winning the championship was a GREAT bonus. Thanks to the league coordinators, my teammates and the other teams were a terrific summer. I hope to see a lot of the folks again soon.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Most Inspirational Player / Inspiring Others
Last night, my Monday night summer basketball league kicked off it's playoffs with an exciting evening of action. The Green team (3rd seed) led most of the game before a furious rally by Orange (2nd seed) in the 4th quarter to take a 1 point lead. Alas, Orange could not hang on as Green eventually won by 4 points. Playing the second game, My team (Black - 1st seed) led pretty much the whole way but Grey (4th seed) battled hard. My team barely pulled away for a 7 point win to join Green in next's week championship game.
In between the two games, the league passed out some awards. The awards were for the Most Inspiration Player for each of the five teams that participated during the summer. In a bit of a surprise, I was given the award for my team.
I've had some personal things I've been dealing with for a few months now. I've had my good days and some not so good days. Basketball was a good get away, whether I was playing on my Monday / Tuesday night leagues (during the summer) for my Saturday pick up games with some friends.
However, getting the award this particular summer was special. I needed a "pick me up" and the award made me feel good. It's not that I needed something external to make me feel better. In fact, the trophy I got isn't a big deal. It was the fact that the trophy made me reflect and clarified some things I need to improve on for the future.
While I am generally cool headed on the court and don't take things personally when someone makes a mistake, I am MUCH harder on myself both on the court and in personal things. I realized I need to take a step back in some of my personal things and be more understanding when things don't go right.
The other thing I realized that I am very blessed in many ways though I haven't been feeling that way a lot lately. I realized that I need to use some of my gifts to (no pun intended) INSPIRE others.
The reason I thought I needed to inspire others is that this was NOT my first Most Inspirational Player award. I've gotten a few awards over the years and I detected there may be a trend. Life may be telling me that I need be more of a good example to others ON and OFF the court.
In between the two games, the league passed out some awards. The awards were for the Most Inspiration Player for each of the five teams that participated during the summer. In a bit of a surprise, I was given the award for my team.
I've had some personal things I've been dealing with for a few months now. I've had my good days and some not so good days. Basketball was a good get away, whether I was playing on my Monday / Tuesday night leagues (during the summer) for my Saturday pick up games with some friends.
However, getting the award this particular summer was special. I needed a "pick me up" and the award made me feel good. It's not that I needed something external to make me feel better. In fact, the trophy I got isn't a big deal. It was the fact that the trophy made me reflect and clarified some things I need to improve on for the future.
While I am generally cool headed on the court and don't take things personally when someone makes a mistake, I am MUCH harder on myself both on the court and in personal things. I realized I need to take a step back in some of my personal things and be more understanding when things don't go right.
The other thing I realized that I am very blessed in many ways though I haven't been feeling that way a lot lately. I realized that I need to use some of my gifts to (no pun intended) INSPIRE others.
The reason I thought I needed to inspire others is that this was NOT my first Most Inspirational Player award. I've gotten a few awards over the years and I detected there may be a trend. Life may be telling me that I need be more of a good example to others ON and OFF the court.
Friday, August 05, 2011
It's a Wrap: Looking back at my 20th season of summer basketball
As I mentioned early in June, I was playing in my 20th season for one of my summer basketball leagues. That particular team had a very GOOD season. Despite some close calls (including two OT games), the team played well and finished undefeated (7-0) in the regular season.
In our particular division, there are 16 teams divided into two brackets (let's call them Bracket A and Bracket B). The top two teams from each bracket would make the playoffs. My team was in Bracket A and so we would play the #2 team from Bracket B in the playoffs. However, the #2 team from Bracket B was probably better than the majority of the teams we played in the regular season and we lost 56-45. While the score didn't look that great, it was due to free throws at the end. We were well within striking distance throughout but missed shots hurt us quite a bit.
My team was obviously disappointed as we had a chance to win the game. Yet, as I look back, I hope the young guys are proud of how they hung in there throughout the season. The team won games in all sorts of ways this season. We played one game without our star, fell behind by 10, but managed to win in overtime. We played one game with six players (meaning I played A LOT) and won by double digits. Plus these guys are still improving and with more experience, they will be a lot better next season.
For myself, I look at things in two ways. As a coach, I think I did alright. I mainly ran subs and focused on defensive strategy rather than offensive. I've never been much of an offensive coach so I was content to let the guys just play. Of course, if there were things I saw that could be improved, I mentioned them. If I wasn't playing, I probably would have been in a better position to coach.
As a player, I didn't do too well. I admittedly had some personal things I was working through and that affected me a bit during the games. But the fact is I was an old guy playing in a young player's league. The teams were quick and fast and I was a little outmatched. I hit a few shots here and there, got some rebounds and tried to fill in where I could. But for the most part, I was a bit player letting the young guys do their thing.
For me personally, while it would have a nice present to celebrate my 20th season in the league to make the championship (and even win it), I was quite happy to just have an undefeated regular season. Yes, we did end up losing our playoff game, but a 7-1 record is still pretty darn good.
To illustrate how good the record was, I have played 20 years in the league. In those 20 seasons, my teams have made the playoffs 9 times. Out of those 9 times, I have been in the championship game 4 times (winning two / losing two). My two championship teams were 10-0 and 8-1 overall. All the rest of the teams had 3 or more losses. Essentially, short of winning the championship, my 2011 team finished with the 3rd best record out of the 20 seasons I have been playing.
All in all, I am proud of my team and was happy I got a chance to play with a different set of guys. I think the young guys have a bright future and my hope is they stick around and grow together. As for my future, nothing is set in stone. I'll still be playing somewhere and if need be, I could play again next summer in 2012.
In our particular division, there are 16 teams divided into two brackets (let's call them Bracket A and Bracket B). The top two teams from each bracket would make the playoffs. My team was in Bracket A and so we would play the #2 team from Bracket B in the playoffs. However, the #2 team from Bracket B was probably better than the majority of the teams we played in the regular season and we lost 56-45. While the score didn't look that great, it was due to free throws at the end. We were well within striking distance throughout but missed shots hurt us quite a bit.
My team was obviously disappointed as we had a chance to win the game. Yet, as I look back, I hope the young guys are proud of how they hung in there throughout the season. The team won games in all sorts of ways this season. We played one game without our star, fell behind by 10, but managed to win in overtime. We played one game with six players (meaning I played A LOT) and won by double digits. Plus these guys are still improving and with more experience, they will be a lot better next season.
For myself, I look at things in two ways. As a coach, I think I did alright. I mainly ran subs and focused on defensive strategy rather than offensive. I've never been much of an offensive coach so I was content to let the guys just play. Of course, if there were things I saw that could be improved, I mentioned them. If I wasn't playing, I probably would have been in a better position to coach.
As a player, I didn't do too well. I admittedly had some personal things I was working through and that affected me a bit during the games. But the fact is I was an old guy playing in a young player's league. The teams were quick and fast and I was a little outmatched. I hit a few shots here and there, got some rebounds and tried to fill in where I could. But for the most part, I was a bit player letting the young guys do their thing.
For me personally, while it would have a nice present to celebrate my 20th season in the league to make the championship (and even win it), I was quite happy to just have an undefeated regular season. Yes, we did end up losing our playoff game, but a 7-1 record is still pretty darn good.
To illustrate how good the record was, I have played 20 years in the league. In those 20 seasons, my teams have made the playoffs 9 times. Out of those 9 times, I have been in the championship game 4 times (winning two / losing two). My two championship teams were 10-0 and 8-1 overall. All the rest of the teams had 3 or more losses. Essentially, short of winning the championship, my 2011 team finished with the 3rd best record out of the 20 seasons I have been playing.
All in all, I am proud of my team and was happy I got a chance to play with a different set of guys. I think the young guys have a bright future and my hope is they stick around and grow together. As for my future, nothing is set in stone. I'll still be playing somewhere and if need be, I could play again next summer in 2012.
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Borders Books: The End Of An Era
I was surprised to hear this week that Borders Books was unable to find someone to buy the company and ultimately decided to liquidate and go out of business after 40 years in business. I learned from my dad to love books and spent many hours at older bookstore chains like B-Dalton and Waldenbooks when I was young.
When the older bookstore chains closed down in the Bay Area, I started buying books online from Amazon and other locations. It was quick and convenient to just order. However, I soon realized that ordering online had it's pitfalls. You couldn't really read the book and you had to wait a few days for the book to arrive.
Within the past five years or so, I began going to Borders (and Barnes and Noble to a certain extent) to read various books and magazines in my spare time. Borders became a home away from home. It was great to peruse through various books, magazines and comics. I admit that I didn't always buy stuff while I was at the store. I think a lot of people did the same and that is perhaps why Borders struggled in recent years.
In addition, the rise of electronics books was probably most damaging. People were able to buy e-books much more quicker than buying from Amazon and that hurt stores like Borders. In fact, up until the past three weeks or so, I was never an e-book reader. However, due to circumstances, I wanted to pick up a few books to read. There was no bookstore around AND I had some online credit from Apple. I ended up buying a few e-books and now reading some things from my phone.
All in all, it is a sad time that Borders is closing. I guess I'll have to go to Barnes and Noble and perhaps my local library instead.
When the older bookstore chains closed down in the Bay Area, I started buying books online from Amazon and other locations. It was quick and convenient to just order. However, I soon realized that ordering online had it's pitfalls. You couldn't really read the book and you had to wait a few days for the book to arrive.
Within the past five years or so, I began going to Borders (and Barnes and Noble to a certain extent) to read various books and magazines in my spare time. Borders became a home away from home. It was great to peruse through various books, magazines and comics. I admit that I didn't always buy stuff while I was at the store. I think a lot of people did the same and that is perhaps why Borders struggled in recent years.
In addition, the rise of electronics books was probably most damaging. People were able to buy e-books much more quicker than buying from Amazon and that hurt stores like Borders. In fact, up until the past three weeks or so, I was never an e-book reader. However, due to circumstances, I wanted to pick up a few books to read. There was no bookstore around AND I had some online credit from Apple. I ended up buying a few e-books and now reading some things from my phone.
All in all, it is a sad time that Borders is closing. I guess I'll have to go to Barnes and Noble and perhaps my local library instead.
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Trust is letting go of the need to control all aspects of our lives and letting God take care of the details.
For the non-religious, another version of the quote in the title is:
"Trust is desiring an outcome while giving up control of the process."
As I noted in some other postings, I hit a fairly prolonged period of worry, stress and anxiety recently. All of the worry, stress and anxiety added up to restlessness, worried thoughts and plenty of sleepless nights. Fortunately, I've had plenty of support as I worked through this period. It certainly hasn't been easy by any means and I think I still have a few things to work out.
The one thing I realized that stressed me out was my over worry about a situation and trying to control as many aspects of the situation as I could. I think most people can relate to this. When you are worried about something, it's because you feel you don't quite have control over every aspect of the potential outcome.
Coming from a sports background, I think the best example would be a coach worrying about how his particular team will do during a game. The coach can have his own team practice and prepare for the next game perfectly. Yet, the coach can't control how each player will actually perform during the game. The coach can't control how the OTHER team will perform during the game. That is why in sports, even so called "bad teams" win games too. Teams with chemistry and talent will prevail the majority of the time over weaker teams. However, even good teams have bad nights and weaker teams have good nights. It is a fact of life.
Alas, even though I understand that from a sport perspective, it's been difficult to accept on the particular situation I've been dealing with. Yet as I as struggled with my stress and trying to come to terms with things, I realized I had to do something about it. I ultimately decided to put some faith (or trust if you must) into God. I realized life is too precious too continually worry about future outcomes where there is so much to do TODAY.
I will say that trust and/or faith in life is not easy to come by sometime. About 14 years ago, while I was in college, I enrolled in a class that was part of a community involvement center program at the school. As part of the program, we went on a weekend retreat to bond together at a camp. One of the lessons taught was to trust and have faith in all of us that worked in the program. The lesson was taught by having people pair off. One person was to leave the second person. The catch was the second person was to have their eyes closed.
I remember I had difficulty keeping my eyes closed. A lot of "What If's" went through my mind. Yet, after the retreat had concluded, the lesson stuck with me. I remember thinking that I finally understood the nature of faith in God. Even though we spend all of waking hours with our eyes open, we are blind to what will happen in the future. You have to trust and have faith that God will not steer you wrong. Alas, it has taken me even more year than that to really understand the impact of it all.
"Trust is desiring an outcome while giving up control of the process."
As I noted in some other postings, I hit a fairly prolonged period of worry, stress and anxiety recently. All of the worry, stress and anxiety added up to restlessness, worried thoughts and plenty of sleepless nights. Fortunately, I've had plenty of support as I worked through this period. It certainly hasn't been easy by any means and I think I still have a few things to work out.
The one thing I realized that stressed me out was my over worry about a situation and trying to control as many aspects of the situation as I could. I think most people can relate to this. When you are worried about something, it's because you feel you don't quite have control over every aspect of the potential outcome.
Coming from a sports background, I think the best example would be a coach worrying about how his particular team will do during a game. The coach can have his own team practice and prepare for the next game perfectly. Yet, the coach can't control how each player will actually perform during the game. The coach can't control how the OTHER team will perform during the game. That is why in sports, even so called "bad teams" win games too. Teams with chemistry and talent will prevail the majority of the time over weaker teams. However, even good teams have bad nights and weaker teams have good nights. It is a fact of life.
Alas, even though I understand that from a sport perspective, it's been difficult to accept on the particular situation I've been dealing with. Yet as I as struggled with my stress and trying to come to terms with things, I realized I had to do something about it. I ultimately decided to put some faith (or trust if you must) into God. I realized life is too precious too continually worry about future outcomes where there is so much to do TODAY.
I will say that trust and/or faith in life is not easy to come by sometime. About 14 years ago, while I was in college, I enrolled in a class that was part of a community involvement center program at the school. As part of the program, we went on a weekend retreat to bond together at a camp. One of the lessons taught was to trust and have faith in all of us that worked in the program. The lesson was taught by having people pair off. One person was to leave the second person. The catch was the second person was to have their eyes closed.
I remember I had difficulty keeping my eyes closed. A lot of "What If's" went through my mind. Yet, after the retreat had concluded, the lesson stuck with me. I remember thinking that I finally understood the nature of faith in God. Even though we spend all of waking hours with our eyes open, we are blind to what will happen in the future. You have to trust and have faith that God will not steer you wrong. Alas, it has taken me even more year than that to really understand the impact of it all.
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Sleeping Is NOT Overrated
One of the unfortunate side effects of my stress recently is the lack of sleep. For a few years now, I usually made do on about 6 to 6 1/2 hours of sleep on weekdays and more on the weekends. Alas, with the stress around me and my mind all over the place, I had difficult even getting my 6 hours of sleep for the better part of two weeks, even on weekends.
As I've gotten a handle on the stress and settled my mind down a little lately, sleep is slowly getting better though it's inconsistent. Some nights are ok while some nights are not quite so good. In reading something online, I think having my sleep disrupted as it did got me to "worrying" about getting to sleep. If you've ever tried to do anything while feeling pressured, you'll know that it's not easy and sleep is one of these things. Now that I know what has been going on, I need to step back a bit and be more positive about sleeping rather than worrying.
With all of this, I realized sleep is definitely not overrated, especially when you've been disrupted like I have been. Alas, I do think there is an interesting learning lesson here. I've definitely been thrown out of my comfort zone in recent weeks and I've been trying to get back into it. However, I realized that if I ever get married and/or have kids, then life will be all about adjustments, including sleep.
These last few weeks have not been easy by any means. I can't even say I have enjoyed the experience as I have gone through it. Yet, if I step back a little, the experience is a necessary for me to move on to the next stage of my life.
As I've gotten a handle on the stress and settled my mind down a little lately, sleep is slowly getting better though it's inconsistent. Some nights are ok while some nights are not quite so good. In reading something online, I think having my sleep disrupted as it did got me to "worrying" about getting to sleep. If you've ever tried to do anything while feeling pressured, you'll know that it's not easy and sleep is one of these things. Now that I know what has been going on, I need to step back a bit and be more positive about sleeping rather than worrying.
With all of this, I realized sleep is definitely not overrated, especially when you've been disrupted like I have been. Alas, I do think there is an interesting learning lesson here. I've definitely been thrown out of my comfort zone in recent weeks and I've been trying to get back into it. However, I realized that if I ever get married and/or have kids, then life will be all about adjustments, including sleep.
These last few weeks have not been easy by any means. I can't even say I have enjoyed the experience as I have gone through it. Yet, if I step back a little, the experience is a necessary for me to move on to the next stage of my life.
Thursday, June 16, 2011
I Don't Wanna Grow Up, I'm a Toys R Us Kid......but eventually you have to......
For those of us who grew up in the 1980's, there are plenty of commercial and other catch phrases that we remember:
Wendy's - "Where's The Beef?"
McDonald's - "You Deserve a Break Today"
Grey Poupon Mustard - "Pardon Me, Would You Have Any Grey Poupon?"
Nike - "Just Do It"
Toys R Us - "I Don't Wanna Grow Up, I'm a Toys R Us Kid......."
In the past few weeks, I ran into some personal struggles. In thinking about those struggles, the first thing that came to my mind was that I was a "Toys R Us Kid". Read on to see why......
Some of my struggles may have been indirectly due to the following things happening all within the span of a few weeks in April:
Job Lay Off / Pondering the future for jobs / school
Traffic Ticket
Owed IRS Taxes
But most importantly, I believe the one that had the greatest impact on me was when my mom got Bell's Palsy. While Bell's Palsy is not a serious thing (fortunately), my mom was scared and I think it scared me too. For the first time, I realized that my parents will not always be there. I think that affected me more than I realized and unintentionally caused myself some undue stress as I pondered an uncertain future.
My recent struggles has woken me up to how much of a comfortable and even maybe sheltered life I have lived. For all intensive purposes, I have almost been living the "Toys R Us Kid" lifestyle. I go to work, go have fun and come home with parents around to take care of everything at home.
My recent stress had come with the realization that this lifestyle will not always be there and that eventually I will have to grow up. In many ways, this is an uncomfortable feeling. It is very difficult to change how you've lived for so many years.
Fortunately for me, I've had plenty of support as I go through this and it has been suggested that I draw up some daily, short term and long term plans for my future. I have put together a short list with some immediate things I want to do. I've begun some of these things and begin the self improvement plan that will eventually change me from a "kid" (figuratively) into a more "mature adult".
As I write this, there is a some sadness in me. I think it's because it feels like a graduation of sorts. When we've graduated at every level of school, there is happiness at the accomplishment. However, there is also sadness as you leave behind the school, friends and other memories of your years. I am sad because I've enjoyed my life for many years and it's tough to change. Yet, it is a necessary change that will lead to bigger and better things.
This is definitely an unusual blog post for me but I appreciate people reading. In many ways, it is a way to let out a bit of the struggles I have been facing in recent weeks.
Wendy's - "Where's The Beef?"
McDonald's - "You Deserve a Break Today"
Grey Poupon Mustard - "Pardon Me, Would You Have Any Grey Poupon?"
Nike - "Just Do It"
Toys R Us - "I Don't Wanna Grow Up, I'm a Toys R Us Kid......."
In the past few weeks, I ran into some personal struggles. In thinking about those struggles, the first thing that came to my mind was that I was a "Toys R Us Kid". Read on to see why......
Some of my struggles may have been indirectly due to the following things happening all within the span of a few weeks in April:
Job Lay Off / Pondering the future for jobs / school
Traffic Ticket
Owed IRS Taxes
But most importantly, I believe the one that had the greatest impact on me was when my mom got Bell's Palsy. While Bell's Palsy is not a serious thing (fortunately), my mom was scared and I think it scared me too. For the first time, I realized that my parents will not always be there. I think that affected me more than I realized and unintentionally caused myself some undue stress as I pondered an uncertain future.
My recent struggles has woken me up to how much of a comfortable and even maybe sheltered life I have lived. For all intensive purposes, I have almost been living the "Toys R Us Kid" lifestyle. I go to work, go have fun and come home with parents around to take care of everything at home.
My recent stress had come with the realization that this lifestyle will not always be there and that eventually I will have to grow up. In many ways, this is an uncomfortable feeling. It is very difficult to change how you've lived for so many years.
Fortunately for me, I've had plenty of support as I go through this and it has been suggested that I draw up some daily, short term and long term plans for my future. I have put together a short list with some immediate things I want to do. I've begun some of these things and begin the self improvement plan that will eventually change me from a "kid" (figuratively) into a more "mature adult".
As I write this, there is a some sadness in me. I think it's because it feels like a graduation of sorts. When we've graduated at every level of school, there is happiness at the accomplishment. However, there is also sadness as you leave behind the school, friends and other memories of your years. I am sad because I've enjoyed my life for many years and it's tough to change. Yet, it is a necessary change that will lead to bigger and better things.
This is definitely an unusual blog post for me but I appreciate people reading. In many ways, it is a way to let out a bit of the struggles I have been facing in recent weeks.
Saturday, June 11, 2011
Adapting To Change
While I can't speak for everyone, I would guess that just about every human being on the planet Earth is a creature of habit in one way or another. There are dozens of things in our daily lives that we do without thinking. It might range from brushing our teeth or to how we shoot a basketball.
However, there are wide differences to different people in how they adapt to changes in their lives, especially when it affects their daily habits and routines. There changes could be as simple as having to travel to another country or something more involved such as having a new baby in the family. Some people are very adaptable and adjust to changes without missing a beat. Some people are very slow and any changes throw them out of sync.
In thinking about myself recently, I believe I am on the slow end of the scale when it comes to adapting to changes which affect my habits and routines. While I am not 100% sure why I am like this, a part of the answer lies with why people stick to habits and routines.
For some, habits and routines bring a sense of comfort and familiarity during stressful times. With the uncertainty with the economy, jobs and other things in recent years, having something to fall back to is a great benefit to many.
Alas, for the slow changers like me, getting your habits and routines disrupted can be disconcerting. I've had that happen before and trying to get back to a normal routing sometimes can be a challenge. This made me think that I need to open myself more to change and be more adaptable.
How to do that? That is the $64,000 question. If anyone had any answers, let me know!
Tuesday, June 07, 2011
20 Years / Seasons of Basketball
On a nice sunny evening here in the Bay Area, my summer basketball team open it's league season tonight with a victory. Tonight's game signaled a changing of the guard. A good number of my regular friends and teammates for much of the past 6 years / seasons were all absent. The majority of the guys who chose not to play are over 30 years old with family obligation so this was understandable.
In the place of my friends were a stable of young bucks. Tonight we had ten players present with nine out of the ten being under 30 years old. The only person over 30? ME! I originally wasn't going to play as most of my older friends were not playing. However, at the behest of one of my other teammates (whom I've played with since 2007), I decided to assume "player / coach" duties for the team.
I wasn't planning to play too much (if at all) this season and just remain a coach. Alas, the opportunity to squeeze in a few minutes proved too much of a temptation tonight. We were able to get a lead and I felt I could squeeze in a few minutes (about 15 or so) without affecting the outcome of the game too much. Overall, all the young bucks played about 20 to 25 minutes overall which was good. I hadn't seen them play much so it was good to get a feel of the team.
By playing in my team's game tonight, I have officially participated in this particular basketball league for 20 years / seasons. I first played in this league during the Summer of 1992. In total, I have played in 19 seasons with one season where I didn't play at all due to injury. I did not realize this until I got home tonight from the game.
In thinking about my participation in this league, I've seen this league grow and play in many different gyms through the years.
My first season in the league, there were only two divisions ("A - Competitive" and "B - Non Competitive") . The "A" league were primarily men while the "B" league had a mix of men, boys, women and girls. There were around 20 teams total (10 in each league) in 1992. As the league grew in the next 20 years, more men's divisions were added ("A - Platinum, "BB - Gold", "B - Silver", "C- Bronze") along with divisions for women and youths. This season, there is almost 70 total teams.
While the league has grown, it has also played in many different facilities over the years, each with their own quirks and charm.
Salvation Army 1992 to 1994 (SF Chinatown) - The gym was not regulation. The court had decent length but the 3 point line was cut off in the corners. Despite the size of the gym, "A" league games were still played in there. There was plenty of space for fans as well and it made for a great atmosphere for games. I played in my first CCU championship game here in 1994 (we lost).
Francisco Middle School 1992 to 1994 (SF North Beach) - I don't quite know if the court was high school regulation but it was pretty close. It was definitely longer and wider than Salvation Army so real basketball could be played. My best memory from this gym was when one of my then teammates hit a buzzer beating three pointer to win a game for us (45-43).
Cameron House 1994 (SF Chinatown) - Cameron House is a historic place in Chinatown. On the site of Cameron House, there are a couple of basketball courts, one downstairs and another upstairs. So while there is technically a ceiling to the lower basketball court, the court is basically outdoors as there is nothing to seal off the elements (wind / rain / etc). During 1994, the basketball league was forced to move some games to Cameron House. It was an interesting experience as there is a staircase exposed plus the court was slippery.
Washington High School 1995 (SF) - We only played one season at Washington and I don't recall anything super memorable from any of the games. The only challenge in playing at Washington was that the league was playing games side by side on two courts. Whistles from the other court could stop play on the other court.
Star Of The Sea 1995 (SF) - Like Washington, we only played one season here. Nothing particularly memorable except it was good to play on a court that I coached and officiated so many CYO games over the years.
Ben Franklin Middle School 1996 - 2004 (SF) - With two courts, Ben Franklin ably served the summer basketball league for 8 years. As a public middle school, the courts weren't particular well maintained. The courts weren't high school regulation as well but it was better than Salvation Army. I have too many memories over the years to easily share here. I was sad when the summer basketball league was forced to move away from Ben Franklin after the summer of 2004.
El Camino High School 2004 - Present (SSF) - El Camino High is like Ben Franklin with two courts. However, the courts are high school regulation and well maintained. This is easily the best facility the league has had in the years I have played. Again, there are too many memories that I can easily share here.
Lincoln High School 2005 / Holy Trinity Church 2010 - Present (SF) - A couple of other courts that were used that I don't have a lot of experience with. But the courts are regulation and the facilities are very nice.
Overall, the past 20 years / seasons have certainly gone by fast. I certainly did not remember it was my 20th year when I arrived at the gym tonight I don't know what the future holds for me in terms of playing in this particular basketball league. However, I am certainly thankful and grateful to my friends and other teammates that have allowed me to play with them over the years. Win or lose, it has always been fun. Here's to 20 more years!!!!
In the place of my friends were a stable of young bucks. Tonight we had ten players present with nine out of the ten being under 30 years old. The only person over 30? ME! I originally wasn't going to play as most of my older friends were not playing. However, at the behest of one of my other teammates (whom I've played with since 2007), I decided to assume "player / coach" duties for the team.
I wasn't planning to play too much (if at all) this season and just remain a coach. Alas, the opportunity to squeeze in a few minutes proved too much of a temptation tonight. We were able to get a lead and I felt I could squeeze in a few minutes (about 15 or so) without affecting the outcome of the game too much. Overall, all the young bucks played about 20 to 25 minutes overall which was good. I hadn't seen them play much so it was good to get a feel of the team.
By playing in my team's game tonight, I have officially participated in this particular basketball league for 20 years / seasons. I first played in this league during the Summer of 1992. In total, I have played in 19 seasons with one season where I didn't play at all due to injury. I did not realize this until I got home tonight from the game.
In thinking about my participation in this league, I've seen this league grow and play in many different gyms through the years.
My first season in the league, there were only two divisions ("A - Competitive" and "B - Non Competitive") . The "A" league were primarily men while the "B" league had a mix of men, boys, women and girls. There were around 20 teams total (10 in each league) in 1992. As the league grew in the next 20 years, more men's divisions were added ("A - Platinum, "BB - Gold", "B - Silver", "C- Bronze") along with divisions for women and youths. This season, there is almost 70 total teams.
While the league has grown, it has also played in many different facilities over the years, each with their own quirks and charm.
Salvation Army 1992 to 1994 (SF Chinatown) - The gym was not regulation. The court had decent length but the 3 point line was cut off in the corners. Despite the size of the gym, "A" league games were still played in there. There was plenty of space for fans as well and it made for a great atmosphere for games. I played in my first CCU championship game here in 1994 (we lost).
Francisco Middle School 1992 to 1994 (SF North Beach) - I don't quite know if the court was high school regulation but it was pretty close. It was definitely longer and wider than Salvation Army so real basketball could be played. My best memory from this gym was when one of my then teammates hit a buzzer beating three pointer to win a game for us (45-43).
Cameron House 1994 (SF Chinatown) - Cameron House is a historic place in Chinatown. On the site of Cameron House, there are a couple of basketball courts, one downstairs and another upstairs. So while there is technically a ceiling to the lower basketball court, the court is basically outdoors as there is nothing to seal off the elements (wind / rain / etc). During 1994, the basketball league was forced to move some games to Cameron House. It was an interesting experience as there is a staircase exposed plus the court was slippery.
Washington High School 1995 (SF) - We only played one season at Washington and I don't recall anything super memorable from any of the games. The only challenge in playing at Washington was that the league was playing games side by side on two courts. Whistles from the other court could stop play on the other court.
Star Of The Sea 1995 (SF) - Like Washington, we only played one season here. Nothing particularly memorable except it was good to play on a court that I coached and officiated so many CYO games over the years.
Ben Franklin Middle School 1996 - 2004 (SF) - With two courts, Ben Franklin ably served the summer basketball league for 8 years. As a public middle school, the courts weren't particular well maintained. The courts weren't high school regulation as well but it was better than Salvation Army. I have too many memories over the years to easily share here. I was sad when the summer basketball league was forced to move away from Ben Franklin after the summer of 2004.
El Camino High School 2004 - Present (SSF) - El Camino High is like Ben Franklin with two courts. However, the courts are high school regulation and well maintained. This is easily the best facility the league has had in the years I have played. Again, there are too many memories that I can easily share here.
Lincoln High School 2005 / Holy Trinity Church 2010 - Present (SF) - A couple of other courts that were used that I don't have a lot of experience with. But the courts are regulation and the facilities are very nice.
Overall, the past 20 years / seasons have certainly gone by fast. I certainly did not remember it was my 20th year when I arrived at the gym tonight I don't know what the future holds for me in terms of playing in this particular basketball league. However, I am certainly thankful and grateful to my friends and other teammates that have allowed me to play with them over the years. Win or lose, it has always been fun. Here's to 20 more years!!!!
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